Child Custody
Second-Parent Adoption’s Role in Same-Sex Custody
Learn how second-parent adoption secures same-sex custody rights in California.
October 1, 2026
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Andrew has practiced law since 2012 and focuses exclusively on family law. He helps clients navigate divorce, property division, child custody, support, domestic violence restraining orders, and military divorce with straightforward advice and personalized strategies.
Meet AndrewKristin has practiced law since 1998, providing assertive yet compassionate counsel in divorce, child custody, support, property division, domestic violence restraining orders, and military divorce. She brings extensive family law experience and practical guidance to difficult decisions.
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In California, spousal support is determined by various factors, including the length of the marriage, the income and needs of each spouse, and the standard of living established during the marriage. Our firm ensures that all considerations are addressed to advocate for fair support arrangements that align with the state’s guidelines.
Taking immediate action is crucial. Securing a domestic violence restraining order (DVRO) can provide protection and peace of mind. Our attorneys work promptly to file necessary documentation and advise on additional legal actions and resources available to support safety and well-being.
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Mediation serves as a means to resolve disputes amicably outside of court, promoting cooperative decision-making. It is often less adversarial and more cost-effective than litigation. Our attorneys facilitate mediation sessions, aiming to reach mutually agreeable resolutions that uphold the interests of all parties involved.
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